I have been trying to say this to somebody for a long time, but couldn't. If you allow me to use this DG to let my heart out, Thank you.
Continuing from my above post, I would like to add this too:
If you, for a sec, imagine Indian Cricket as Hollywood, then Sourav Ganguly is the Marlon Brando. You know, when Marlon died, Jack Nicholson in his condolence speech said this : He gave freedom to us,actors. Its true, he gave freedom to act, freedom to express themselves, freedom to do something extraordinary. I always remember Sourav as the one who gave freedom to the future Indian captains. He gave them freedom to get what they want, freedom to fight with the selectors, freedom to allow the fringe players to prove themselves. Indian captains will do well if they remember that. We know how Sachin publicly expressed his anguish over not getting what he wanted, from the selectors. Oh well, Sourav did mistakes, who didn't? I was deeply hurt as a fan of Marlon when I learnt that he and Rod Steiger(Charlie) were not actually present during the famous cab scene in "On the Waterfront". Marlon used to leave the sets as soon as he finished his part and Rod used to act as if Marlon were present. Reams and reams of paper were used to describe the onscreen chemistry between those two gentlemen, for what? But that doesn't take away the glorious acting, powerful dialogues from that scene. John and Sourav might have had some differences, but together, they taught the players how it feels like, if you put the national flag on your heart, they taught what it feels like to achieve overseas success. You know whats the best part of The Godfather is, its not the movie, its the making of that movie. Al Pacino, Robert de Niro, Robert Duvall, all young and energetic actors, waiting for a break, they got Marlon. Paramount studio head vehemently opposed his selection, he argued it could ruin the careers of those young actors, he argued, Marlon's non-punctuality, rudeness, disrespect to fellow actors might rub onto them. But Francis fought for it. The young actors learnt all the good things from Marlon,leaving out his bad part. The things they learnt that time, eventually, would help them to become legendary actors. They learnt from his mistakes, from his bad manners. Always young kids say, so and so, is their role model. I tell them, when you choose a person to be your role model, first of all, you should be smart enough to learn from their mistakes, strong enough to scale their heights. Sourav might have done some bad things, he might have got what he deserved, but that doesn't take away the fact that Harbhajan,Yuvraj,Irfan,Virender etc. learnt a few things from him. They learnt what would happen to you if you take sides against your family. Virender now learnt after his bad patch, what it feels like to take sides, he must be regretting for what he said after the Bangalore test match. Sport is a great leveller. But what I want to say is, we as fan base, must always recognize our player's achievements, urge the future captains not to do same mistakes, but we cannot ridicule them. Behind every glory, there is a sacrifice. We must respect those sacrifices. We must pay our respects. A young cricketer can choose Sachin/Sourav/Mahender as a role model, but they got to know the sacrifices, they got to know the mistakes they did, they got to learn from them. It hurts me when people say a particular player's innings came against minnows, came against weak opposition etc.
Lets enjoy the moments they gave us. Lets learn from their mistakes.
Sorry for being a Grumpy!!
